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Building Healthy Confidence

Self-confidence is important in many areas of our lives, but so many people struggle to find it. Confidence is a mental process that comes from considering if we are capable of something. Self-confidence is having confidence in oneself when considering taking a course of action. Belief in our capability and being self assured.

Confidence gives us the ability to challenge the unknown and take risks to believe in our ability to cope. Some express it as an inner knowledge or knowing the outcome of a situation. Yet none of us can really know what the future holds.

Learn how to dispel the thoughts of self doubt with NLP and Hypnosis

The thing that really stands out for me now is that I have learnt that I really have a right to feel confident about myself.  I start every day confidently. I’m confident about what I can do and what I say. I used to feel like I was being pushed around by other people because I had a fear of openly expressing myself. So much has changed
Thanks Once again.
Paul T

The feelings of confidence are really nothing more than the result of our inner thoughts and the life experiences we use to support our beliefs. These can support us or hinder us.

These thoughts are generally built around rules, meanings or beliefs that we have adopted through life. Without this meaning the consequences of success or failure is Irrelevant. We would simply have no emotional response to success or failure.

The negative meanings generally revolve around a concept of trying to protect ourselves from being judged negativity. That failure or rejection is a negative personal reflection of our value as a person and that our success is a positive reflection of our self worth

Build the natural confidence to restore a healthy emotional balance with NLP and Hypnosis

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Most people in the UK are very reserved and often don’t what to appear too confident, too demanding or too pushy. We often judge people from other countries such as the US as being too loud or over confident.

Not surprising, considering the many saying’s that bombard us in our early years.

  • Don’t get too big for your boots
  • Pride comes before a fall
  • Nobody likes a big head

 

Building a healthy level of confidence is not about constantly telling everyone how good you are or being boastful. It is about recognising your own unique talents, skills and capability to grow and develop. It’s about taking responsibility for your own confidence and not being dependent on outside sources to constantly give you positive re-enforcement.

Learn to think like a confident person
Take control of your inner thoughts with Hypnosis and NLP

Creating a level of confidence is something you have to actively engage in. Most commonly they are

  • Predicting Negative consequences of taking action Reliving past experiences of failure Making the challenge too big or complicated
  • Engaging in negative self talk

But self confidence is not just positive thinking. Positive thinking is a part, but not the whole of creating a strong level of confidence.

Learn how to build a healthy level of confidence that you can count on by using NLP and Hypnosis

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In order to build a solid level of confidence we need to look at feeding our inner confidence from 2 sources.

1) Our inner thoughts
2) Feedback from the outside world

Feeding our confidence from these 2 sources need to be done in balance. The early auditions for the show The X Factor give a great example of people who derive their confidence from their inner thoughts and simply disregard the feedback from the outside world.

High Confidence - Low Competence.

This can also result in the opposite.

I have meat many successful businessmen who simply go to pieces at the thought of public speaking.

High Competence and Low Confidence.

Building and maintaining a robust level of confidence is about balance. Basing too much of our confidence on the feedback we get from the outside world can cause us to be too dependent on the positive feedback of others, and allowing one person’s negative view (true or false) to affect us

You become what you practice
Learn how to defend your inner confidence from outside negative influences
using NLP and Hypnosis

You will learn how to maintain a level of inner confidence, slightly higher than the outer feedback. This high level of inner confidence will give you the courage to move forward and take on challenges which are essential for developing competence. It becomes a re- enforcing cycle of skill and confidence that stand s the test of time.

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Call for a free consultation or drop me an email and look forward to the positive changes you can make. Telephone 01162 881517 Mobile 07830 351425 Electronic mail Info@godoit.co.uk
 
 

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Mobile 07830 351425 Electronic mail Info@godoit.co.uk

Contact information

Call for a free consultation or drop me an email and look forward to the positive changes you can make. Telephone 01162 881517 Mobile 07830 351425 Electronic mail Info@godoit.co.uk

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